Top 10 Reasons Why You Hate LDR

10 Reasons why you will Hate LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

1. What is the first thing that comes to your mind?? I bet it would be NO physical contact right? RIGHT? You can’t hold hands, can’t cuddle, can’t hug, can’t kiss, can’t massage each other……..and etc.  Without being fulfilled the sense of touch, love life is dull…for most of the normal human couples I would say. For those who are more to spiritual connections, this is not an issue I guess. \(^o^)/
2. Sadly, there would be NO any celebrations together. =( Valentine’s day, birthdays, Christmas……..all these supposed to be spent together holidays, you will be celebrating them ALONE T.T ..Of course you have friends, buddies, but  you should know the difference. These days would be felt like HOLe-I(alone)-DAYs if you do not have someone or a bunch of friends to celebrate with.
3. He/ she would NOT be there when you have troubles. Don’t feel helpless, you are helpless o.O…you are all on your own. Settle problems all by yourself. No one to be relied on. Hate it..why he is not here where I’m the troublemaker? No one is gonna solve the problem when he is the problem solver. Okay, it’s time to be independent when you are not even aware whether you want to be or not. =z
4. Now what makes it worse is, he/she is NOT there when you need a shoulder to cry on. Facial tissues, pillows, dolls and all sort of non-living things are things that you can depend on.. Maybe a fake arm will help. Nothing else. >< C’mon, it’s not the end of the world. Be tough, you can still laugh =D
5. Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh….NO way to release your stress physically!!! Can’t have a pillow fight?! No I don’t mean that. I mean ‘the stress-releasing sandbag’ is no longer there. NOTE: This reason is exclusively for females. *Peace*
6. Lonely…I’m so lonely..I have nobarrrrrdy..aiyoweiyooo ohhhh owhhh ouhhhhh~~this song definitely suits the feeling of a non-single who can’t go on romantic dates because of LDR. A lovely date to go shopping, watch movies, have candle-light dinner or go for a walk by the beach is NOT possible. So, literally we are incomplete without our the other half.
7. Things can’t go worse than having to hang out with a pair of couples by yourself. What’s the word?? LIGHTBULB!!! Yea, so right!! One thing you will certainly dislike: go for dessert when you quite full but you have NO one to share with. Don’t tell me you are willing to share with the coupled friends. ==’’’ NO, you are not. NO way..
8. MIScommunications. Something to be blamed when people can’t express themselves well. Misunderstandings occur more frequently in LDR than any other relationships without doubt. Why? Even with Whatsapp, Facebook, Skype, the lack of face-to-face talk will only lead a mere talking-to-a-device conversation. And for your information, there will be internet disconnections. You can wait? Ya..but can you wait and wait and wait and wait?? Had it been once that you felt unhappy when your loved one who was supposed to reply you but didn’t text you back? How about poor connections?  Imagine both of you Facetime when the line is poor for long…..^&%##@#!&^&#$.. right? So how can you communicate well with all these technological problems and those the only communication tools you can use?
9. You will scare to express too much feelings or emotions because you don’t want to let him/her feel pressure. What is it called? Too considerate?? Maybe. It is reasonable to go that way, even you think it is like ‘WHAT?!’.. Yes, humans especially humans in love tend to care, sometimes just too much. They care about something that isn't there. When both try to hide their true feelings, here comes the next point.
10. Humans in love tend to think too much as well when they don’t see you. Power of imagination will start to grow. Small rock will look like a big bomb. With the help of technology such as Facebook TAGs, Facebook CHECK-Ins, Facebook SEENs, Facebook ONLINE xxMINS AGO, Whatsapp LAST SEENs and all other ways for stalkers to stalk, you have NO way to hide. Your the other half at the other half of the globe will know what you’re doing despite his/her physical absence. Just like what you wish, he/she will be by your side no matter what lol. By your side to keep you under surveillance. There would be TRUST issues. 

Is LDR merely a relationship which you started off together but circumstances created the physical distance between both of you, leaving everything else hold, or it has something more than that to be considered?  If you think distance itself spells doom for a relationship, think again..

Stay tuned for the solutions peeps ;)

Cheers,

Charis OvO